Relationships matter most in education. And in life.
I’ve been back from unplug’d 2012 for just about a week. I’ve had some time to reflect on the experience, new relationships, old relationships, work & life. And, it always comes back to relationships matter most.
What I hope will stay with me after unplug’d 2012 is the willingness to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is something I really struggle with, as do many other people. Just read some of Brene Brown’s research on vulnerability. Even at unplug’d I struggled to open up. I was afraid I wouldn’t measure up to my colleagues there, so many fantastic educators who have accomplished so much in their schools. My fears of being judged seem to be always lurking below the surface, waiting to be proven right. But I did it, I opened up. I shared a piece of myself and of my past with my writing group. Soon it will be shared with the world. And it was good. The theme of our group:
You are not alone.
None of us are. We are all connected to one another in so many ways. If we only take the time to listen. If we open our hearts to what others are saying and feeling. The photo above is of our writing group. I am so fortunate to have met and bonded with these people. From left to right: Alan, Karen, Me, Rod & Kelly.
So my focus this year will be developing strong, trusting relationships with my students and colleagues. Nourishing my relationship with family and friends. Unplugging more often so that I can really connect.
Yes pedagogy and technology are important. But relationships are what really matter.